It seems that the bondage has never been as present in our sex lives as it is today. It may have to do with the fact that some of the most popular books and movies of today have to do with this topic, and maybe it’s the other way around. Whatever the reason for this may be, more and more people have started having bondage foreplay as a part of their sex lives. Seeing how this type of foreplay can be really dangerous, there are some things they need to know about this.
Adult bondage can be really dangerous as we have already said, and that is why the participants need to have a safety word. This word needs to be a word that is not being used in your day to day lives, and especially not a word you use commonly during your foreplay or sex. Pick a word like “tractor” or “printer” to be your safe word, and in no way should you just choose the word “no”. Some couples like pretending, and in such a case you’ll never know if your partner is acting or really wants you to stop.
Even though you’re doing bondage, it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t make the setting a bit more romantic. Light up a couple of candles, and the moods is definitely going to be set. However, keep in mind that there is a possibility of you or your partner knocking them down, so make sure you place them far away from you.
Bondage is role-playing, and that means that you shouldn’t really hurt each other. Be tender while you’re doing it, and make sure that you don’t tie each other too tight. Of course, there is a safe word, but that doesn’t mean that you ought to push the limits. Be tender, living and caring, and you’ll receive exactly that in return. Also, some people use chains, belts and ropes to tie each other. Make sure that they are completely clean, because that way, you won’t be in any danger.
Great music can help out a lot. So, agree on what kind of music you both love, and play it. Some couples like hard music, while others prefer the soft one. The most important thing here is being comfortable, so pick music you both love, and just enjoy it.
Creativity is really important when it comes to bondage, and this means that you can try to include some other sex plays with it. Bondage does not only have to be about tying each other, you can also try something else, in fact, include everything that makes you feel great.
Adult bondage is not a new thing, but would appear that it has only recently started to become popular. And now that you know some things that could make this experience even better for you, there is no reason why you shouldn’t try it out. The most important thing is to be safe and to care about each other’s wishes, and once you’ve accomplished that, this experience should be great for you.Read More